Life’s easier if you have a support team with no dickheads.
Step 1 Know that people love to help others
When you ask someone for help with your life/career they hear you saying… ” I think you are smart/kind/important/ and powerful enough to help me to succeed.”
Only a total dickhead will knock you back and you wouldn’t want that person on your team anyway.
Step 2 Choose your team
Identify your ideal team of 6 – 8. They can just be people you like. They don’t even have to be a real people, you could have Luke Skywalker on your team.
When you have identified your ideal team look at each one and say WHY you chose them.
Did you choose Luke Skywalker because he will never turn to the Dark Side or because he is powerful, loyal to his friends, and great at using a lightsaber?
Identify the 3 – 4 key characteristics of EACH of you team members.
When you have finished look at the strengths.
These are the strengths you value.
If you have chosen 3 or 4 people because they know how to use a lightsaber, you must REALLY want to know how to use one.
You get the drill. Apply this principle by checking which strengths on your list are mentioned more than once.
Step 3 Act
Check out your whole family, friends, teachers, sports coaches and identify those who could help you to develop those strengths? Then act to build your support team.
Pick 2 strengths to concentrate on. Figure out just 2 things to do with the help of the people who could help you to build those strengths.
- You may just need to hang out with some and copy what they do. Or
- You might want to ask them to help you to …. never turn to the Dark Side, become more powerful, be loyal to friends, and become great at using a lightsaber. (Or whatever strength you want to grow.)
In West Australia building a network is a great way to create opportunities for yourself. It’s called Standing on the Shoulders of Giants and it’s a shortcut to success.
Step 4 Have Fun
Have fun building your strengths. Your team will keep helping you if they are having fun.
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